Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Here are 10 Keys to Cultivate a Can-Do Attitude

Here are 10 Keys to Cultivate a Can-Do Attitude:

Key #1: Disown Your Helplessness

Can-do people aggressively pursue solutions, and, in the process, uncover creative solutions others never even try to find. Can-do leaders take responsibility for the future, whereas lesser leaders blame circumstances or other people when facing roadblocks. Rather than wallowing in helplessness, can-do leaders search diligently to overcome the obstacles in front of them.

Key #2: Take the Bull By the Horns.

Can-do people are fearless. They go straight to the source of their solution. Their very effort commands attention as they wrestle a problem to the ground with expediency. I have discovered that people with a can-do attitude have an aggressiveness about them. They take the bull by the horns. When they enter into the arena of action, they don’t wait, they initiate.

Key #3: Enter the No Whining Zone.

Can-do people abstain from complaining. They recognize its futility and guard their minds and mouths against indulging in this time-wasting activity. As George Washington Carver observed, “Ninety-nine percent of failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses.”

Key #4: Put On Another’s Pair of Shoes.

Can-do people empathize with others. They attempt to see any predicament from the other person’s perspective in order to make the best decisions. In my book Winning with People, one the 25 People Principles is the Exchange Principle, which says that instead of putting others in their place, we must put ourselves in their place.

Leaders see the world from their perspective and others’ perspectives. They use their own perspective to give direction, and they use others’ perspectives to forge relational connection. Both direction and connection are indispensable to taking the team on a successful journey.


Key #5: Nurture Your Passion.

Can-do people are immune to burnout. They love what they do because they’ve learned how to fuel the fire that keeps them moving. In leadership, the prize is not given to the person who’s the smartest, nor to the person with the advantages in resources and position, but the prize goes to the person with passion.

Key #6: Walk the Second Mile.

Can-do people exceed expectations. While others settle for an acceptable solution, they aren’t satisfied until they have achieved the unimagined. They set expectations for themselves higher than what is dictated by the people or situations around them.

Key #7: Quit Stewing and Start Doing.

Can-do people take action. While others are crippled by worry, fear, and anxiety, they have the fortitude to press forward. The perfect moment when all is safe and assured may never arrive, so why wait for it? Can-do leaders take risks.

Key #8: Go With the Flow.

Can-do people can adjust to change. They don’t get caught griping about an unexpected curve in the road. They accept transition with an optimistic outlook. They realize it’s less important what happens TO them, than it is what happens IN them.

Key #9: Follow Through to the End.

Can-do people not only initiate, they finish. They are self-starters with the capacity to close the deal.

Key #10: Expect a Return as a Result of Your Commitment.

If you make an all out commitment with a can-do attitude, expect a return. Passionate commitment is contagious, and resources follow resolve. Committed leaders will reap rewards and find open doors as others are drawn to the excitement and energy emanating from them.

By: Dr. John C. Maxwell

Friday, June 22, 2007

Discouragement, Quotes





Leadership Wired - July 2007

  • “What we do not see, what most of us never suspect of existing, is the silent but irresistible power which comes to the rescue of those who fight on in the face of discouragement.”

    ~ Napoleon Hill



  • “Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.”

    ~ Dale Carnegie



  • "Being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional."

    ~ Roger Crawford

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Tip: If I am not the Problem, Then there is no Solution!

This Tip requires a lot of concentration for all who hear it. It is one of the

most difficult concepts I have ever learned in my life. The first time I heard

it, I began to feel defensive. I tried to think of all the reasons why it was

wrong. I thought, "That cannot be right! I am not the problem in every difficult

situation in which I find myself and I know that there are some problems

that I have absolutely not brought upon myself!" But over the years, I have come

to see the power of this deep, unusual truth.



You see, you have a

powerful influence that you bring to the table in every situation in which you

find yourself. If there is something taking place in your life right now that

you feel is not going well, then the question to ask is, "What can I do

about it?" In other words, what role could YOU play in order to make

things better? Until you realize that if you are not the problem (even a small

part of it), then there can be no solution. This kind of thinking takes the

matter of personal responsibility and turns it squarely around so you can look

it right in the face.



When I finally began to process this, I realized

that this concept is actually one of the healthiest ways of thinking that I have

ever experienced. In any difficult situation in which I find myself, I begin to

ask myself a series of questions. "What role do I play in this problem?" "How am

I participating in this particular situation?" "What have I done or said to make

this situation better or worse?" "What can I do to make things a little more

pleasant?" It causes personal responsibility to fall squarely on my shoulders so

that I can begin to make a difference in the situation.



Perhaps you are

in a relationship with a family member or with someone at work where you have

done everything in your power to make things right and you are still not

satisfied with the current state of affairs. Well, let me say once again, if you

are not part of the problem, then there can be no solution. I told you this was

a difficult concept!



It is human nature to want to straighten out other

people and other situations. (If you find a good methodology for doing that,

please let me know! I would love to know how to correct other situations and

other people to make them all turn out exactly as I would like. Unfortunately,

that is not possible.) The longer I live, the more I see that the only person I

have any power over on this entire planet is myself! I believe I should be a

strong influence on others, but I cannot control anyone. Nor do I want

to. I simply want to control myself and influence others.



I refuse

to live my life based on the decisions of other people or the circumstances that

come my way! If I can do anything to make the situation better, then I will do

it, because I recognize that I am part of problem. When I recognize that, it

immediately, helps me to become part of the solution.



Recently at work

someone made a mistake. I told them not to worry about it, but to learn from the

mistake. I said, "Actually all of this is my fault for starting this company. If

I had not started this business none of us would even be here at work today and

none of this would ever have happened! So, as far as I am concerned, I am the

problem!"



I know you are thinking, "That is crazy!" But, let me remind

you that I am the one watching people work harder and harder and doing a better

job each day. Casting blame has no place in a healthy business, or in a healthy

life! Have you found it to work successfully for you?



Let me encourage

you to begin to look at yourself in any situation as the chief problem. I know

this is irritating, like rubbing the fur of a cat in the wrong direction.

However, it will free you to no longer have a VICTIM mentality, but begin to

have a VICTOR mentality.



I have shared this concept many times with other

people and I have seen that it often takes a while for it to sink in. It is a

big pill to swallow, but it brings smooth digestion to your stomach once it

becomes part of your daily life. Trust me on this one! It is a powerful concept

to make part of your life and your daily experience.



Robert Rohm Ph.D.

Personality Insights, Inc.











Choice, Quotes

Leadership Wired - June 2007

CHOICE


We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.
~ Kahlil Gibran

 

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms -- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.
~ Viktor Frankl

 

“It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.”
~ J.K. Rowling

Sunday, June 3, 2007

Legacy

"A legacy is a gift given back to your family name and something that future generations of your family will look to in times of hardship." ~Orrin Woodward

Saturday, June 2, 2007

Nothing is more disgraceful...

"Nothing is more disgraceful than that an old man should have nothing to show to prove that he has lived long, except his years." ~Seneca

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